One thing I have realized long back is that nobody will ever be there for you when you truly need them. People will tell you trust them, however, they are the people that break the trust more.
They will tell you to come to them when you feel lonely, but they are the ones that make you feel lonely. Why is it so difficult to leave expectations behind and just carry on with yourself.
Why is being social important? Why are humans like this? As we grow older the time we spend with friends and family decreases and that is when we start feeling more and more lonely.
Adulthood is a scam. Nobody asked for it, yet everyone is living it. Is there a way where you can manage your work and still have time for the people around you?
If you want to you will, however it is not a one sided thing. If you keep on trying and the other person does not reciprocate, what more can you do, then to let go.
As you grow, you realize the people who are growing with you and the people who are pulling you back. It is better to be lonely than being surrounded by people who weigh you down.
Soon you start to enjoy your own company and being hyper independent to a point where you can accept failures but not help from others.
The Quest for Thought 
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